Why I am single?
Why I am single? It's a merathon of today's generation. Our ancestors, missed a chance to run for it. I whole heartedly pray for their misfortune.
Let's travel this question.
The reasons are quite simple. You may be single because, you are happy with your life. You know how to tackle problems in your life. You know how to stand by your own. You never ever thought them with anyone else. Till you have come across others relationships. You never had raised the question of being single. But as others are in relationship. You also want to be like them. It's like following the latest trend. Even though you are happy with your on life. It's like you want to make it happen for others sake. From whom you want to hear that. Hey, he is in relationship. Which makes you feel arrogant. Till then you was not satisfied. For that sake I will advise you to prefer being single. Such relationship is meaningless, there is no worthy for it. After entering such relationship. You may be not mocked by others, that you are single. But, the predominant thing is that, you will not feel bonded. Even after being in relationship you will feel lonely. You will make out in your mind that relationship doesn't give any happiness. After a while. It's over you want to break up now. Because yours and your partner's matches are over. You and your partner are not finding any confined
things in each other. Then why the hell you wanted to be in a relationship. To just blame the relationship. If that is the thing then, Being single is better than having wrong thought of relationship. Guys don't try to rush in your life. You can't force something to happen your own way. Even though if it does. It will not last longer. One or other day it will gonna end. You will not be happy. If you may have waited a little, there may be someone who may gonna enter your life. And that may be your true life partner. Which is actually your happiness. Let life happen, rushing is not the solution. If this is not your case. Sorry to trouble you to read it. Your reasons are still to come. Please move on.
Then the reasons are....
a) you are too picky. I want such and such partner. Damn man! Have them in your dreams. How someone can be so perfect as you wish. Don't make your own laws for relationship. You will miss out its real chemistry. Instead of implementing that laws. Be with someone, who real find interest in you. You will get really a beautiful time of your life. And will soon start dumping that laws in trash. As you got that they are senseless.
b) other reason may be your self-esteem. It have two faces. One way, you may think that. That person is not for you. They are beyond your limits. Keeping your self-esteem very low. And other is you think yourself very great. Keeping very high self esteem. You think others as inferior and yourself as superior. And want somebody who is of your status. Never doubt yourself or others personality. Stop such judging. All have their own quality. Being of same status doesn't defines any relationship. And keeping too low self esteem is also not good. You yourself makes your value down. Then others also do the same with you. Get it off from your life. It will help you to have a chemistry sooner.
c) another reason may be you are shy. You don't like to socialize with others. Don't be like that. Try to socialize. Meet as many people as you can. Inturn it will boast your confident. You may make a better personality out of it. Even most of the people wishes to have such a person in their life.
Let's travel this question.
The reasons are quite simple. You may be single because, you are happy with your life. You know how to tackle problems in your life. You know how to stand by your own. You never ever thought them with anyone else. Till you have come across others relationships. You never had raised the question of being single. But as others are in relationship. You also want to be like them. It's like following the latest trend. Even though you are happy with your on life. It's like you want to make it happen for others sake. From whom you want to hear that. Hey, he is in relationship. Which makes you feel arrogant. Till then you was not satisfied. For that sake I will advise you to prefer being single. Such relationship is meaningless, there is no worthy for it. After entering such relationship. You may be not mocked by others, that you are single. But, the predominant thing is that, you will not feel bonded. Even after being in relationship you will feel lonely. You will make out in your mind that relationship doesn't give any happiness. After a while. It's over you want to break up now. Because yours and your partner's matches are over. You and your partner are not finding any confined
things in each other. Then why the hell you wanted to be in a relationship. To just blame the relationship. If that is the thing then, Being single is better than having wrong thought of relationship. Guys don't try to rush in your life. You can't force something to happen your own way. Even though if it does. It will not last longer. One or other day it will gonna end. You will not be happy. If you may have waited a little, there may be someone who may gonna enter your life. And that may be your true life partner. Which is actually your happiness. Let life happen, rushing is not the solution. If this is not your case. Sorry to trouble you to read it. Your reasons are still to come. Please move on.
Then the reasons are....
a) you are too picky. I want such and such partner. Damn man! Have them in your dreams. How someone can be so perfect as you wish. Don't make your own laws for relationship. You will miss out its real chemistry. Instead of implementing that laws. Be with someone, who real find interest in you. You will get really a beautiful time of your life. And will soon start dumping that laws in trash. As you got that they are senseless.
b) other reason may be your self-esteem. It have two faces. One way, you may think that. That person is not for you. They are beyond your limits. Keeping your self-esteem very low. And other is you think yourself very great. Keeping very high self esteem. You think others as inferior and yourself as superior. And want somebody who is of your status. Never doubt yourself or others personality. Stop such judging. All have their own quality. Being of same status doesn't defines any relationship. And keeping too low self esteem is also not good. You yourself makes your value down. Then others also do the same with you. Get it off from your life. It will help you to have a chemistry sooner.
c) another reason may be you are shy. You don't like to socialize with others. Don't be like that. Try to socialize. Meet as many people as you can. Inturn it will boast your confident. You may make a better personality out of it. Even most of the people wishes to have such a person in their life.
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